Welcome to the Women's Well~Being Circle

When engaging with women through intimate conversation that often results from that famous Wendy Williams questions, “How you doin’?” It is almost always answered with rounded shoulders caused by a robust exhale. It’s almost always followed by a laundry list of things on their plates and none of them involve self-care. I’m surprised at the number of women (including myself) who either do not have the time or resources or the time and resources for simple pleasures, such as:
  •        Bubble bath
  •        Pedicure
  •        Professional hair grooming
  •        Lunch during work day
  •        Dinner out with girlfriends
  •        A visit to see about a friend or family member in need
  •        Uninterrupted time for personal reading

Without a calendar event, it is actually hard for a woman to set aside time for herself. Today after a dialogue with a friend, I realized the need for the Women’s Well~Being Circle is stronger than ever before. The Women’s Well~Being Circle is simply a place woman could go to seek a little reward for all they give to their families, work, spouses, parents, and the list goes on! This circle is a time set aside, preferable once a month, where women would know in advance a date, time, and location for an event scheduled to release daily stressors. Often these events are fun activities with subtle educational information about mental and physical health and financial wealth (financial literacy).
Past events included reflective practices, book discussions, movie night (followed by group discussion on best practices for daily work/life balances), spa trips, financial ad visor presentation, and more. Some events include speakers while others are basically an opportunity for women to share in a welcoming environment that enhances relaxation. These events are usually free of charge or of little cost (price of movie ticket or lunch).
Take some time to review and familiarize yourself with our site. Review the upcoming events tab and add them into your calendar. When you RSVP to an event, you will be sent the additional details closer to the date.

Welcome to the improved Women’s Well~Being Circle! A place for women to network and support one another's wellness.

Want a productive work day?


Want a productive work day? Watch what you eat.
 

Do you have days at work when you feel energetic, inspired and productive, while on other days you feel tired, busy and stressed, with almost nothing to show for your efforts at the end of the day? When you spend several hours a day at work, it pays to make those hours healthy ones for both body and mind. Making some simple, smart choices throughout your workday can help boost your creativity and productivity while reducing fatigue and minimizing stress.
1. Fuel right. Vegetables, fruit, whole grains, lean proteins and healthy fats will provide you with a steady source of energy throughout the day while offering the nutrition you need for long-term health. Many fast-food or takeout lunches contain sugar, salt, white flour and low-quality fats and proteins, which can leave you feeling bloated and sluggish now while gradually eroding your health and expanding your waistline.
3. Take your lunch break. Consciously disconnecting from work in the middle of your day can give you an energy boost and make your afternoon go more smoothly. If possible, eat lunch somewhere other than your desk — preferably outside, weather permitting, where you can get a dose of sunlight and fresh air.
4. Eat mindfully. If you must lunch at your desk, try to refrain from checking your email, doing work or talking about work. Take a few deep breaths, then eat slowly and savor your delicious, healthful meal. While the volume and composition of your meal help you feel satisfied, so do the sensory aspects of eating — taste, aroma, texture, color and temperature. If you quickly inhale your lunch without noticing it, you deny yourself the full eating experience, which can leave you feeling like you need to nibble.
5. Manage the work food environment. If you work outside the home, you spend a huge chunk of your day in the workplace, which makes that your second most important food environment (after your home). It’s also an environment that can be unpredictable in what temptations it sends your way — especially treacherous if your job is stressful, and stress makes you want to eat. Packing your own nutritious and appealing lunch and snacks can help inoculate you against less-nutritious offerings from the vending machine or co-workers. If you buy your lunch, placing your order in advance instead of waiting until you are already hungry can make it easier to make a healthful choice.
6. Stay hydrated. Even minor dehydration can cause headaches and make you feel tired and unable to concentrate, which isn’t good for your productivity or your well-being. As there are no hard-and-fast rules about how much to drink, it’s best to let thirst be your guide. In the habit of ignoring thirst? Aim to drink at least six to eight eight-ounce glasses of water a day, more on days you exercise. One way to tell: If your urine is clear or very light, you’re probably doing just fine.
7. Move often. Our bodies are meant to move frequently, and that includes more than just planned exercise. If you sit at a desk all day, make a point to move at least every hour. Get up to fill your water glass, go talk to co-workers instead of emailing them, do a few stretches right at your desk, or step outside to take a short rejuvenating walk.
8. Breathe. Deep breathing is your body’s built-in energizer and stress reliever. Simply taking a few deep breaths can help you feel calmer, but if you have more time, sit and focus on your breathing for a few minutes. Try this at least a few times during the day to relax and recharge, more often if you notice you’re feeling stressed or tense.
9. Don’t multitask. You may think you’re being super productive, but you’re not. Studies show that multitasking wastes more time than it saves. Even worse, it reduces our brain function over time. When you allow yourself to focus on a task or project without distractions (email, social media, open browser windows), you’ll complete it better and faster — and then have the satisfaction of checking it off your to-do list.
10. Honor personal boundaries. Establishing at least some degree of balance in your universe is important to help you function at your best at work and home. Allowing work to bleed into your off-the-clock hours on a regular basis will ultimately make your performance suffer in both spheres. It’s important for your health and well-being to spend quality time with friends and family, as well as quality personal time to exercise, prepare nourishing meals and simply relax.

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8 Secrets for Beating a Bad Mood

Here, then, are some everyday tips for lifting your mind and body out of a low mood and back into life. Use them to pull yourself out of a bad mood, or to protect a positive mental state and prevent yourself from sliding back into negative feelings.
  1. Move.Regular moderate to intense exercise can potentially have the same effect on your mood as taking an antidepressant pill every day—and the side effects are much better. To get regular exercise, all you really have to do is walk briskly: Walk to work, walk to errands, or go for a stroll by yourself with a friend or your partner. You'll be amazed how much it helps. Even if it's the last thing you feel like doing, you'll feel great once you're out there doing it.

  2. Eat healthy foods throughout the day.Don't go too long without eating—this will make you grumpy—and stay away from sugary junk foods or drinks that make your blood sugar rise and then crash, triggering mood swings. Choose foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids, like salmon and fiber-rich flax seeds, for a happy brain (literally).

  3. Get enough sleep.Research consistently shows that not getting enough sleep can have a dramatic effect on your mood and ability to cope with stress. You might think you're chronically blue; it could be that you just need some more sleep—and if you regularly sleep fewer than 7 hours a night, I can almost guarantee it.

  4. Spend time with friends, or people who make you laugh.I remember a day I had some dental work done, and was feeling sore and grumpy. I didn't want to do anything but lie on the couch and mope. Then I turned the TV on and came across a stand-up showcase. I called my husband over to watch with me, and within minutes we were both screaming with laughter. (He's hysterically silly by nature; so is my dog!) Lots of times, a moody, lethargic state that feels like it has taken up permanent residence in your brain is only a temporary state that can change quickly, with the right input or stimulation.

  5. Put on music that you love.It's hard to stay down when high-energy music you love is playing. I can go from moping to chorus-line kicks (or pathetic attempts, at least) in 5 seconds if the right song is on. Pay attention to the music, friends, TV shows and activities that give you energy and make you feel fun and alive, and use them as your secret weapons when you're feeling down.

  6. Sit up straight.It's true: When we're feeling blue, we tend to slouch and shuffle around. Stand up straight, walk tall and with purpose, remember to breathe, and most of all, smile, even if you don't feel like it. You'll feel better.

  7. Avoid alcohol.Booze will make you feel good for a moment, but it's a depressant, and so eventually it will make your mood start to slide back downward. Worse, it affects the depth of your sleep, making you feel worse the next day, even if you rest a full eight hours.

  8. Get in the sun.I know, I know—wrinkles, skin cancer, etc. Still, some experts believe our rising rates of depression are a result of the ever-increasing amount of time we spend indoors, and the fact that we wear sunscreen on when we go out, blocking the ability of the sun to form mood-protecting Vitamin D via our skin. Our brains need daylight, and sunlight, to keep producing feel-good neurotransmitters. When the sun comes out, go for a walk—between the sunlight and the exercise of walking, it's a one-two power punch for a good mood. (But I also take a Vitamin D supplement.)
If you do all of these things, I can't guarantee that you'll feel great, but you should feel better, and, importantly, become far less likely to get knocked down by a bad mood again.
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Adopted from Psychology Today. Read full article here.